Thursday, August 19, 2010

Monday, May 24, 2010

*inevitable mourning

Tomorrow I leave to Taiwan, yet, it's the first time I drag going. I've been avoiding my blog, I haven't had the desire to write anything. It's been a couple of weeks since my grandfather passed. Friday is the funeral, and the burial is a week later. There's a ritual which I have no idea what to expect but to experience it once I'm there.  I realized, I've been working non stop, creating while mourning. Just creating because it makes me feel better. I wonder why no one ever taught me how to mourn or even talked about it. Anyways, now that I am getting ready to fly the 14 hour flight, I thought I'd share some of the things I've made.

I will not be shipping during 5.25.10-5.28.10. There will be delays with emails but I will respond as soon as I can. My return date is TBD. Gotta go pack, enjoy! Love ~ R



Thursday, May 6, 2010

Thursday, April 15, 2010

* a quote by Mother Teresa

I came  across  a new blog today "It's A Love Story", the first reading caught my attention, "Being a mother is hard."

The funny thing is, I felt and understood exactly what Alexa was writing about. I guess that's how I feel towards my two babies. Ronni just turned 15 years old and Custo is over 5.5 years old.

Anyway, a beautiful quote by Mother Teresa caught my attention shortly and I had to share it here...

"People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway. If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway. What you spend years creating and building, others could destroy overnight. Create and build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the world the best you have anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."
--Mother Teresa

Thursday, April 8, 2010

*The Warlords (Tau Ming Chong)

I know this is old, but a great epic is a great epic! One of the best ever from 李連杰 (Jet Li), 劉德華 (Andy Lau), and 金城武 (Takeshi Kanashiro) from Taiwan :)

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

*Grigio Wedding Gown by bellinabridal

Grigio Wedding Gown

I never knew wedding gown can come in grey! It's beautiful :)

Sunday, March 28, 2010

*Life and Death

I have been back from Taiwan for 2 weeks now, my grandfather was out of the intensive care but he is now back in the hospital. I have been reading, studying, and chanting. Today, the mother of a good friend has passed this morning and it's also her due date for her baby boy. The baby hasn't arrived yet, but soon. I was really sad, especially my experiences in this past month. But this is life, there are joyful moments and unpleasant moments. I found an article written by my mentor Daisaku Ikeda on this subject and it is truly heart warming. Here it is:

Death is something no one can escape from. It follows life as surely as night follows day, winter follows autumn or old age follows youth. People make preparations so that they won't suffer when winter comes. They prepare so they won't have to suffer in their old age. Yet how few people prepare for the even greater certainty of death!
Modern society has turned its gaze away from this most fundamental issue. For most people, death is something to be feared, to be dreaded, or it is seen as just the absence of life - blankness and void. Death has even come to be considered somehow "unnatural."

What is death? What becomes of us after we die? We can try to ignore these questions. Many people do. But if we ignore death, I believe that we are condemned to live a shallow existence, to live "hand to mouth" spiritually. We may assure ourselves that we will somehow deal with death "when the time comes." Some people keep busily engaged in a constant stream of tasks in order to avoid thinking about the fundamental issues of life and death. But in such a state of mind, the joys we feel will ultimately be fragile, shadowed by the inescapable presence of death. It is my firm belief that facing the issue of death can help bring real stability, peace and depth to our lives.

What, then, is death? Is it just extinction, a lapse into nothingness? Or is it the doorway to new life, a transformation rather than an ending? Is life nothing more than a fleeting phase of activity preceded and followed by stillness and nonexistence? Or does it have a deeper continuity, persisting beyond death in some form or other?

Buddhism views the idea that our lives end with death as a serious delusion. It sees everything in the universe, everything that happens, as part of a vast living web of interconnection. The vibrant energy we call life which flows throughout the universe has no beginning and no end. Life is a continuous, dynamic process of change. Why then should human life be the one exception? Why should our existence be an arbitrary, one-shot deal, disconnected from the universal rhythms of life?

We now know that stars and galaxies are born, live out their natural span, and die. What applies to the vast realities of the universe applies equally to the miniature realms of our bodies. From a purely physical perspective, our bodies are composed of the same materials and chemical compounds as the distant galaxies. In this sense we are quite literally children of the stars.

The human body consists of some 60 trillion individual cells, and life is the vital force that harmonizes the infinitely complex functioning of this mind-boggling number of individual cells. Each moment, untold numbers of cells are dying and being replaced by the birth of new cells. At this level, daily we experience the cycles of birth and death.

On a very practical level, death is necessary. If people lived forever, they would eventually start to long for death. Without death, we would face a whole new array of problems--from overpopulation to people having to live forever in aged bodies. Death makes room for renewal and regeneration.

Death should therefore be appreciated, like life, as a blessing. Buddhism views death as a period of rest, like sleep, by which life regains energy and prepares for new cycles of living. Thus there is no reason to fear death, to hate or seek to banish it from our minds.

Death does not discriminate; it strips of us everything. Fame, wealth and power are all useless in the unadorned reality of the final moments of life. When the time comes, we will have only ourselves to rely on. This is a solemn confrontation that we must face armed only with our raw humanity, the actual record of what we have done, how we have chosen to live our lives, asking, "Have I lived true to myself? What have I contributed to the world? What are my satisfactions or regrets."

To die well, one must have lived well. For those who have lived true to their convictions, who have worked to bring happiness to others, death can come as a comforting rest, like the well-earned sleep that follows a day of enjoyable exertion.

I was impressed a few years ago to learn of the attitude of a friend of mine, David Norton, professor of philosophy at the University of Delaware, toward his own approaching death.

When he was only seventeen, the young David had become a "smoke jumper," a volunteer fire fighter who parachuted into inaccessible areas to cut trees and dig trenches to keep fires from spreading. He did this, he said, in order to learn to face his own fear.

When, in his mid sixties, he was diagnosed with advanced cancer, he faced death head-on and found that the pain did not defeat him. Nor did he find dying a lonely or solitary experience, according to his wife, Mary. She later told me that he felt he was surrounded by all his friends and said that her husband had faced death without fear, regarding it as "another adventure; the same kind of test as facing a forest fire."

"I guess the first thing about such an adventure," Mary said, "is that it's an opportunity to challenge yourself. It's getting yourself out of situations that are comfortable, where you know what goes, and where you don't have to worry. It's an opportunity to grow. It's a chance to become what you need to be. But it's one that you must face without fear."

An awareness of death enables us to live each day-each moment-filled with appreciation for the unique opportunity we have to create something of our time on Earth. I believe that in order to enjoy true happiness, we should live each moment as if it were our last. Today will never return. We may speak of the past or of the future, but the only reality we have is that of this present instant. And confronting the reality of death actually enables us to bring unlimited creativity, courage and joy into each instant of our lives."~Daisaku Ikeda 

Thursday, February 25, 2010

*going to Taiwan...

My grandfather is in the intensive care overseas, I WILL BE LEAVING THE COUNTRY 2.24.10 ~ 3.12.10. ALL ORDERS BEGINNING 2.23.10 WILL BE SHIPPED AFTER MY RETURN. I plan to also find items which i can design during the trip, I will try to post them if possible. Thank you for your understanding!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

*achilles featured on craft candy

*feature of the week: ChenilleMacabre

chinese new year is this sunday, the year of the tiger! i've been off-line and have neglected my blog for personal reasons. but now i'm back and feeling more peaceful than ever. so for this week's feature from the dark side is: ChenilleMacabre


"Another of the popular Rakshasa warriors from Chenille Macabre, this white tiger warrior from the far East is skilled in the deadly pairing of the katana and the wakisashi! He is as noble in heart as he is fierce in battle!

The White Rakshasa Mini stands 2" (5.08 cm) high. His body is built from chenille stems. His armor is felt with a funfoam belt buckle sporting a gem. His (non-removable) swords are built from plastic, funfoam and felt.

The White Rakshasa Mini is quite poseable! He is the only one of his kind, and he bears my signature on the soles of his feet!" ~ChenilleMacabre

don't forget to check out ChenilleMacabre 's shop for amazing finds!

as a member of etsy dark team, i  feature an item every wednesday from one of our members! be sure to check out our site or search for etsydarkteam when you are on etsy!

be back next wednesday for feature of the week!

Monday, January 25, 2010

*Haiti Relief Donation Compeleted!

first of all, i want to thank all of those who made a purchase between 1.18.10 ~ 2.24.10 from my grigio and grigiodesign shop on etsy! although sales were slow but i felt the outcome was more than i expected! from grigio, the total sale was $147 and all paid. from grigiodesign, the total sale was $125 with $100 paid. so, $247 was the total sales from both stores and 60% that came out to be $148.20! 

i just finished the donation and took a screen shot! see below. once again, lots of thanks to every single person who contributed to this little project! i hope you will enjoy your jewelry and know that part of that money went to Haiti! thank you so much! :) ~rossana 

Sunday, January 17, 2010

*American Red Cross commits $1 million in aid to Haiti | News for Dallas, Texas | Dallas Morning News | Headline | National and International News

i would like to contribute to part of American Red Cross's commitment, so, i will be listing items all week long which i will be donating 60% of all sales through Sunday, January 24,09 to the Red Cross.

i will post a copy of the receipt once all the proceeds are donated. thank you!


American Red Cross commits $1 million in aid to Haiti | News for Dallas, Texas | Dallas Morning News | Headline | National and International News

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